Pat Large Herbert

Profile Updated: August 30, 2015
Pat Large
Residing In: Glen Spey, NY USA
Spouse/Partner: George Herbert, deceased (2005)
Occupation: Dir. of HR for electronics firm (32 years)
Children: Cori, born 1970, married with two children; Cayla (age 5) and Tyler (16 mos) living in River Vale. Cori More…worked for 20 years before deciding to be a stay-at-home Mom after the birth of Tyler. I don't think she has decided which job was harder.

Rob, born 1973. Lives in upstate NY with an apt in NJ. He is a Set Dresser in the film industry. He has worked on such films as I Am Legend, Enchanted, Duplicity, Lovely Bones. He is currently working on the tv show Law and Order.

Dave, born 1977, died 2006
Visit his website (our labor of love): www.rememberdave.net
Yes! Attending Reunion
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Whew! Where do I begin? I'll keep it short...
Married Brad Buschow in 1968. We had three children. We divorced in 1979. Raised my children as a single mom and loved it! Scout leader, soccer mom--the whole route. Nothing was (and is) more important to me than my kids! Needless to say the devastation of losing my son, Dave, at the age of 29 brought me to my knees, but because I knew we had to "right a wrong," I didn't have time to feel sorry for myself; I had to push forward. Rob and I fought the legal battles, but more importantly, we fought for changes in the school to prevent future needless deaths.

Since Dave's death, I have been traveling to places he had wanted to visit and experiencing things he enjoyed to do. Before he died, he chastised me for not living life so I'll live life until these old bones object. And, I'm sure he'll be along for the ride!

School Story:

Biggest regret: I worked part-time after school so I missed out on a lot of the socializing. I should have spent more time just being a teen-ager.

What I hated: Gym uniforms (ugh) and running track in the winter. Reading the Times every day.

Best Memory: Taking time off from work to be in the Jr/Sr Play, Dobie Gillis. Does anyone even remember it? Anyway, it was a lot of fun.

Teachers: Any class with Mrs. Brett. She was a great teacher and cool person. Mrs. Stieffel's impromptu skits in Speech & Drama were always funny. Mr. Capasso's offbeat sense of humor.

Remember, Please Stand, Face the Flag, and Repeat After Me? That was me. Anything to go to class late or leave early.

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I remember Louie very well.  He could always make you laugh; sometimes at the teacher's expense. He was my first "date" in 6th grade; a western movie at Pascack Theatre.  I remember he asked if he could kiss me and I said, "Let's not and say we did!"  He was quick on the uptake and said, "Let's and say we didn't."  It was such a strange coincidence that his father grew up just down the street from my mother in Paterson and they knew each other very well.  Life sure has such funny twists and turns.  He was always such a nice, funny guy.

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Seemed like all the girls had the Jackie Kennedy look!



















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Dave, Cori, & Rob on Cori's Wedding Day, 2003
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Tyler, Cori, Ara, and Cayla
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Rob in Alaska 2008
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Rob and I hiking in Alaska in 2008
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My first attempt at rockclimbing. Dave, are ya watching?