In Memory

Pamela Altman (Brown)

Pamela Altman (Brown)

A note from Priscilla Whitley – many of us feel a deep sadness in her passing but Joy in knowing her - Hal Peters

____________________ from Priscilla __________________________

Pamela Susan Altman Brown passed away peaceful on August 27, 2021. Some knew her as Pamela, Pam, Pammie, and many as Pammie Sue.

 

Pamela, who grew up in Hillsdale, lived an extraordinary and full life.

 

After college, in 1970, Pamela moved to New York City, working at True Magazine, as the Assistant Fashion Editor. For those who remember her from high school, fashion wouldn’t have been the first career for her to come to mind. But she succeeded beyond even her expectations.

 

Leaving True, she joined Conde Nast’s publication of Gentlemen’s Quarterly (GQ) working her way up to Fashion Editor. Her life became immersed in the New York fashion world. Each year she attended Fashion Week in Paris and Milan, while countless photo shoots took her throughout Europe and beyond. She became quite fluent in Italian and loved Italy for its art, its culture and, of course, its sumptuous food. Without any formal training Pamela became an accomplished cook.

 

Vogue Magazine, also a Conde Nast publication, took Pamela’s career to another level when she became one of their Fashions Editors. After years of working in men’s fashion, Vogue recognized her talents went far beyond only one genre. Pamela brought to Vogue her many connections to designers, photographers, and top stylists, along with her talent for creating content, photo shoots, and scoping out new fashion trends. Coupled with her quick wit, both in writing and in relationships, she stayed with Vogue for many years.

 

Pamela was funny. Her mind grasped the funny. Clever, smart, and sharp, her humor drew others to her. So many branded her the funniest person they ever knew. Though, sometimes a little wickedness was thrown in, oh you better be on your toes!

 

New York City was Pamela’s home after high school. She loved the Jersey shore and had a beach house in Manasquan. She felt at home on Martha’s Vineyard, going every summer when she was able. She spent as much time as she could in Italy, especially in the Sardinia area.

 

Pamela married Daniel Brown in a quiet beach wedding in Montauk, NY. Her passing occurred on their 32nd wedding anniversary.

 

Cancer entered her life while she was still too young. Eventually her health, as well as her husband’s, took priority over her career and she and Danny settled down in Florida in order to slow down their lives.

 

But cancer didn’t stop her. Pamela was feisty and never gave cancer top billing. Cancer had taken her mother just before the start of our freshman year at PVHS, and she fought each bout in a refusal to dignify its existence. She volunteered vigorously for The American Cancer Association and the National Breast Cancer Foundation. Again, her humor was her ally.

 

Pamela was a good and loyal friend to so many. She loved her group of PVHS friends, who after the loss of her mother, became her family. She never forgot them or what they meant to her.

 

Many of our classmates didn’t know her after we graduated, but they would have so enjoyed her triumphs and her bright spirit. Pamela was unique, a dear friend who many will miss. We shared so much together as I believe losing an old friend is like losing a witness to our lives.

 

 

Donations may be made in her name to:

National Breast Cancer Foundation                                                           PO Box 676910
Dallas, TX 75267-6910

Sympathy can be mailed to:

Daniel Brown                                                                                      1437 Hollyberry Place                                                                           The Villages, FL 32162



 
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08/30/21 06:39 PM #7    

Lee Castagnoni

So sorry to hear, will miss all her posts on FB

RIP Pammie Sue


08/30/21 09:02 PM #8    

Stephen Lee Huganir

In high school,I had a short list of those who I was envious of...Pam Altman was at the top of that list.(sort of like,"I wish I could be like her")
And I am envious of all of you who were close to her.

08/30/21 09:08 PM #9    

John F. Genovese

This was written to Pammie . If she could have written this to her friends and the people that loved her, this is what she would've said to us all. She never worried about herself but always about others ,but of course, as her friends we worried about her also:


🌻Life gives you ups and downs and pain is usually first. 

It helps us appreciate the times we laugh and smile ,for this is part of our search.

 

We look for friends to calm the pain from wherever they abound. 

This helps us understand that we are not alone with the pain we suffer from like Jesus crown.

 

So when we think we are alone and suffering more than others,

Then look over your shoulder my friends,

 As that person has tears and there lips shutter.

 

So ask your friends what seems to be wrong and you expect the answer to be easier. 

“ I wish I had the time to explain But I must keep searching for the answer ."

 

Yes Pammie,You have surely found the answer.Rest in piece my sweet friend.💐🙋🏼‍♀️

 

Author: Dr. Johnny Genovese


08/31/21 06:24 AM #10    

Sandy (Sandra) Jung (Balogh)

I have fond memories of Pam, as a friendly, positive, joyful classmate and person. I'm so sorry to read about her passing, rest in peace lovely Pam.

08/31/21 02:04 PM #11    

Joan Freeman (Doré)

What beautiful comments!  I especially love the memorial words by Priscilla.  They show an enduring friendship and love between two friends from PVHS.  I can't wait to print a copy to send to Danny. ( Dan the man ).

I shared many things with PammieSue.  We both loved politics, NYC and Italy. She loved when I posted pictures of our trips to Italy even though she could no longer travel herself.  She encouraged me in my volunteer work.

She had an incredible life story and was one of a kind.  She had a biting sense of humor and you didn't want to get on her bad side for sure. 

RIP Pammiesue.  Your legend lives on. 

 

 


09/01/21 11:53 AM #12    

B. Eric (Rick) Cooper

Oh Pammie Sue, you showed us what an emancipated woman was even before we were aware of the term.

We will certainly miss you.

09/02/21 10:17 AM #13    

Denise Marie Donovan (Rickard)

What a wonderful life she had.  She touched many lives.  Sorry to hear but very happy to hear that she lived a very full life.  RIP!  

 

 


09/03/21 07:42 AM #14    

Nick Ciccarello (Nicholas Ciccarello)

One of my fondest memories of high school is being in Doolittle's class with Pam.  Her wit, smile, and fun-loving attitude always made me look forward to that class.  I am so happy that she led a wonderfully successful life.  She was such a rebel in high school and a very bright light for all of us.  I will never forget her kindness, her laugh, and her lust for life. Rest in peace dear Pammie.  


09/03/21 03:45 PM #15    

Sandra Elaine Jackson (Parisi)

We lived in two different towns, but only 1/4 mile away.  She knew Dayle Schaef who lived in her development, who I knew and that's how I met Pam.  My first visit to her house (her Mom was not home) was to walk into her WHITE living room.  I learned very quickly that you did not walk in, or sit on anything!  So many fun memories!  I am so sorry I didn't get to see her after High School, and only recently saw her on one of our face chats.  Went to my yearbook to see what she wrote - the only capital letter she used was the OK and her signature P

"where do i begin?  It has been a long 4 yrs - all the great times - with dayle and ginni & my hair & reading books in the middle of the nite & all the many, many fites - but we came out OK!  lots of love & much much luck P~~~ "i gotta grow-up" 

A great reminder of our "I Gotta Crow"

Hope you get to meet Steve, you will make him laugh!


11/28/21 11:42 AM #16    

Larry Leiser

Priscilla, thank you so very much for your wonderful comments regarding the life of Pam Altman (that is how I knew her in high school).  I remember her well as a unique and fun classmate.  It was terrific and inspiring to learn of all she accomplished during her life. I apologize for being so late in my comment.  I recently retired and am finally finding the time to spend on matters that I should have been more mindful of over the years.

I hope this comment finds you and your family well and looking forward to a wonderful holiday season.

Best,

Larry Leiser


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